Oral Sex Orgasms

With more than half the year gone I’d like to know how many of us have achieved an absolutely mind blowing orgasm or helped their partner achieve one. Did you know that more than 30% of women in the world cannot experience and orgasm? It made me wonder what an orgasm like this would be like until I experienced one myself and it wasn’t until 7 years ago that I first realized what I had been missing out on for all these years. For many women the best way of achieving a wild orgasm where your body seems to explode all the way from your toes to your clit and the most consistent way is through oral sex.

I am going on what I have learnt over 4 years as a working girl seeing men and women on a daily basis and am prepared to share a technique that a lot of men have tried on their partners… If a partner knows how to give outstanding oral sex then a woman will reach an orgasm majority of the time…

My partner certainly knows how to play with my little button and he sure knows how to make my bells ring… so guys help your partners experience this wonderful sensation that I enjoy so much…

Hmmm I can see some of you looking at your partners and asking that question, “How can I give you what she’s having?”

It reminds me of the shampoo commercial with Meg Ryan in it, “Oh yesss!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!!” “I’ll have what she’s having”…

Ok guys lets get down to some real fun with your partner.

There are many different ways to give oral to your partner and all I can say is, the best way is the way you and your partner feel most comfortable with.

Both you and your partner should be in a comfortable and relaxed position and ladies YOU NEED to tell your partner what you want him to do!!!! Enjoying and pleasing is a team effort so to speak, enjoy sex at it’s best for both of you, not just one of you.

Foreplay can be fun if you let your bodies relax and enjoy the sensual touching that can be experienced either in or out of bed. Sexual encounters do not have to take place in bed or they can take place anywhere that you feel comfortable.

I like lying near a roaring fire on a sheepskin wool rug in winter, watching a XXX video and sipping on a glass of wine. In the kitchen is good too, but just remember to have a wide enough bench top and remove sharp knives in case of a slip-up of some sort…. Showering with a friend can also be exciting, but sometimes, oral services can get water logged.

Ok, back to guys giving oral to their partner…

Here is an excerpt from a story I once wrote:

”I want you to suck my clit and lick my pussy… that’s right, I want you to kneel between my legs and use your tongue, tickle my clit, lick my pussy juice. I want you to fuck my cunt with your tongue.

My legs are open for you cause I am as horny as hell and my juices want to flow as you bring me to a mind-blowing orgasm.

Oh yes, that is so nice, tease my pussy, flick my clit softly, don’t point your tongue, use the flat part of your tongue to lick me. My pussy loves to be licked, I want to feel you caress my pussy with your hot tongue, make it tingle all over…

With your head between my thighs, my pussy is hot as you lick, tasting my juices one more time. Sliding one finger into my twat, you tickle my g-spot, playing with a sensitive area that makes me have wild orgasms. I love it Steve and I don’t want you to stop… push two fingers into my hole now and fuck me hard with them as you lick my clit… Oh Steve, I’m Cumming now!!! Fuck me harder!! That’s it, harder, suck on my clit … oh yes ahhhhhh”

Hmmm, I love reading this part of the story…

However, there are parts of this story that you should pay attention to.
1. Use the flat of your tongue - really going to town and sucking on a girl’s clit may sound exciting to some men, but I have found that it can also turn a girl off with the continual sucking.

Ok to help you guys along a bit about how this may feel to a lady… Think about how the head of your cock feels just after you have ejaculated… sensitive right? Yep, well going on my experience that is what it feels like to have your clit sucked over and over. On that note some ladies may enjoy it, so really it is individually based on what your partner’s sense of arousal and the sensations that this may cause. Hope this makes sense…

2. Listen to her - if she tells you to fuck her pussy with your tongue, then do it, follow her lead but at the same time experiment, use your fingers to please and tease at the same time, if she likes toys, use them gently unless she tells you to fuck her harder and harder with them…

3. Ladies, tell your man what you want, don’t be afraid to open up and tell him your needs.

Above all else, relax and enjoy your sexual experiences together. If you can’t relax your mind-blowing orgasm may not happen… so please ladies take my advice, relax and you will enjoy… focus on a point that is most sensitive and let it happen for you….

On that note, I hope you all give it a go and enjoy the oral experience that we all desire. Mind-blowing orgasms are wild and fantastic; foreplay with out intercourse can be a wonderful way to play.

Please remember that I am not a Sex Therapist, but I am a sex worker who learns so much from her clients, male and female and of course the couples I see.

Love Machine

Let's say you're a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you're a 'rare to find'. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you're the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you're amazing in bed.

Did I say AMAZING IN BED???

Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.

And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.

Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.

Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.

Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. If you are keen to get sex right then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com and surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest love machine.

Bedroom Issues: Am I terrible in bed?

Frankly, if you need to ask this question then you already have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.

And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.

There are many things that could go wrong, which are not necessarily under your control. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt.

Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small since going out with the guys is fun and hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.

Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy. And if you really have a problem, don’t despair. Every problem has a solution.

If you are keen to get sex right every time, then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com.

Something New for the Couples

There are lots of factors that gets in the way of most couples to make sex less exciting as time goes by. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine sometimes becomes so tiring. The fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run, it is a good idea that couples should try some new variations --- especially in getting terms with intimacy.

Variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. It allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting uninteresting but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom.

With comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and a whole section dedicated to sex positions, Lovecentria™ has all the answer for your concern. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people especially if you get to see the fun side of trying and failing to get it right the first time.

Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You're just beginning to learn new positions so there's no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.

The Lovecentria™ team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life.

New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria™ website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest. With 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control, you can surely become a bona fide sex god. For more info, just visit Lovecentria by clicking here.

Something New for the Couples from Lovecentria™

There are lots of factors that gets in the way of most couples to make sex less exciting as time goes by. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine sometimes becomes so tiring. The fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run, it is a good idea that couples should try some new variations --- especially in getting terms with intimacy.

Variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. It allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting uninteresting but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom.

With comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and a whole section dedicated to sex positions, Lovecentria™ has all the answer for your concern. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people especially if you get to see the fun side of trying and failing to get it right the first time.

Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You're just beginning to learn new positions so there's no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.

The Lovecentria™ team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life.

New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria™ website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest. With 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control, you can surely become a bona fide sex god. For more info, just visit Lovecentria.

Lovecentria™ and Kama Sutra

Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take Kama Sutra for example. Everybody’s heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra it’s just that: a name. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Nevertheless, it’s easier to pretend that one has the common vague idea about what’s in it than to really get hold of a copy and read it.

But, since we believe that it’s better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself, Lovecentria™ has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people. Lovecentria™ features an everyman’s guide to both Kama Sutra and Tantric sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.

We have a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and ebooks that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kama (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria™ website.

The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. With more information comes more confidence and before you know it a new man will emerge from within you, a man who knows what to say and what to do to succeed every time. I think every man would like that.

Tantric sex is another great way of blowing the minds (not literally) of women; especially those who don’t think much of you at the start. Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It’s about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that’s exactly what’s going to make her beg for more every time. Because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.

If you are interested in experimenting with Kama Sutra and tantric sex then Lovecentria has all the content and advice that you need. Articles, videos and instructional eBooks are all available.