Most men aren't really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one. So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a guy after the first time they make love? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women? First off, women like to be listened to. They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed can lead touch better sex. Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him.
What's more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly LIKE women. That makes a big difference. The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn't see them as friends. A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.
Also a man who touches women gently and doesn't rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good. So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don't feel that way. It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all. It certainly isn't the way to excite and stimulate most women.
And of course, a great lover knows about the female body. He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind. He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.
He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes - or doesn't make. He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs. If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately.
A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn't just stick in his penis and hammer at her. He doesn't stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most men do.
What really keeps most men from being great lovers - lovers that women remember with a smile for years - is that they have a goal - and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal. They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.
Next time you are on a date with a woman, try listening to her - really listening. Talk with her, get to really know her. Enjoy her company, don't focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later or anything other than the time you are spending with her at that very moment. If you treat every minute you spend with her in this way, and you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you - and that is the most important first step toward being a great lover.
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Friday, April 13, 2007
Sex Without Intercourse
Kissing, cuddling and touching are an important part of lovemaking and couples that run their lives in this way use every opportunity to share such affection. The slightest touch or pat can be worth a thousand words and a hug at just the right time makes words redundant. Sometimes these little intimacies simply say, "I love you", yet on other occasions it is clear they are preludes to some sort of sexual activity. The couple in tune with each other know without saying, which is which, and use such teasing, even perhaps to some level of arousal, as a sort of work-up to intercourse later. In this article here we explore how you can make love to your partner without physically having sex, yes men it can be done.
This kind of "lovemaking" then becomes like an extended foreplay both know will end in lovemaking some time in the near future.
If you run your intimate life in this way, lovemaking takes on a rather different level of importance. It is now no longer the be-all and end-all of the intimacies you share. This means that you will cope better with the ups and downs of your sexual appetites and, mutually attuned, detect sexual interest early and know how to act on it. Then, when you do have intercourse it is much more meaningful because it takes place against a background of loving interest in one another.
Not only are inequalities and variations in sexual appetite better coped with, but the occasional failure, rather than becoming a disaster, is kept in perspective because it is understood that the relationship has far more going for it than whether or not genital contact is always good.
Lovers of longstanding sometimes find they communicate without words; they seem to know what the other is thinking and feeling. Shared secrets help to make this a secret society. The woman may whisper to her man while they are on the dance floor, that she's wearing his favourite underwear, for example. "Accidentally" touching your lover's body in a certain place or in a particular way can have a devastating effect. Some couples can achieve the same impact with just a look.
Many couples have a private language, that they use even in front of others, as they tell one another about their feelings, arousal, or their anticipation of erotic things to come, which all add to the excitement. All of this makes such a couple much less likely to suffer from jealousies because they flirt with each other and look to one another to answer their needs. They do not then see members of the opposite sex as threatening because they know that what they have between them is vastly more valuable than anything a quickie relationship could offer.
If all of this seems nothing more than a fantasy to you, there are ways of improving things: Start of by going back to courtship behaviour; many couples have never really courted - taking every opportunity to show love in different ways. Give one another presents for no reason. They don't have to be expensive; it's the thought that matters; kiss more; telephone to say, "I love you." Leave love-notes around where they'll be found by your lover; go out with one another as if it were your first date as teenagers. Really try to please one another as if you were just starting to date. You may be surprised how much you've taken each other for granted over the years and how stale the caring and love for one another has become.
It is helpful in any loving relationship to remember to bear in mind the airline motto "we never forget you have a choice". There are many couples that let things slip, perhaps year after year, becoming more and more lazy and thoughtless only to find when they go back to courtship they've all but forgotten how to deal with one another in this way. As with so many things in life practice makes perfect and over the weeks you'll become more proficient at courting one another. With luck and effort, the combination of making courtship a priority, and your increased experiences of life, will reap you a far richer harvest than would have been possible when you were first going out at the beginning of your relationship.
One of the most fruitful ways of making all this happen is to organise sensual holidays. A sensual holiday can last from an evening to a weekend. The main purpose is to get away from your normal day-to-day routine both in and out of bed and to really court one another.
You can prepare for the holiday beforehand to get best out of it. Ideas include: the uses of herbal aphrodisiacs such as ginseng, yohimbe; breakfast in bed; one sensual massage; lovemaking in an unusual place; a novel type or position of lovemaking you know your lover would like; or an evening devoted to your lover's every whim. Each couple will have their own ideas as to what suits them, or they've always wanted to do.
Send your tokens some days before the holiday so your lover has time to prepare (if necessary). This also helps build up excited anticipation for the holiday. Remember, none of this need be expensive - the whole thing can take place at home with perhaps a special dinner or outing just for the two of you. Whatever you do and wherever you do it, the main thing is to give yourselves over to one another totally and to aim to do things that please and delight. Talk about it afterwards to see what worked well and what didn't. It's best to take it in turns to arrange such holidays so each lover has the opportunity to call the shots and decide what they want.
Sensual massage is a wonderful way of lovemaking without intercourse. This form of loving contact is often underestimated. There are few things a couple can experience together that allow them to be more in touch with themselves, and to communicate at every level than a loving, sensual massage. Whether or not this becomes an erotic massage is up to you, but even if one does lead to the other you still don't have to end up having intercourse - you could stimulate each other or simply cuddle and kiss.
Sight, sound, smell and taste are powerful aphrodisiacs - exploit them to the full. Right from babyhood most of us use fewer of our senses than we might. In learning to please one another without intercourse it can be helpful to look at how each sense could be better used to serve lovemaking. Here are some ideas:
Use perfume, perfumed soaps, scented oils for massage, burning joss sticks, flowers, room perfumes, and anything else (not all at once!) that helps enhance your sense of smell. Remember, if you perfume yourself too heavily you'll mask the natural odours that are such a turn-on for your lover. Make sure you are clean and washed but not so squeaky clean your natural smells are obliterated. Learn, perhaps for the first time, how each part of your lover's body smells.
The lover's sound can be delicious as you make love. The little groans, sighs and moans that say "I love you" are all valuable cues to how things are going. With the lights off, learn to recognise how your lover's sexual arousal cycle is progressing just by sound alone. Take a delight in the sounds of your bodies reacting with each other. Use beautiful music to accompany lovemaking.
Get to know how your lover tastes by licking all over. Taste mouths, faces, sweat, genital secretions and so on. This is intimately tied up with the smelling exercise since taste and smell are so closely interlinked. Experiment with all kinds of tactile sensations using not only your bodies, but also foods, clothing, vibrators and so on.
EXTENDED FOREPLAY
This kind of "lovemaking" then becomes like an extended foreplay both know will end in lovemaking some time in the near future.
If you run your intimate life in this way, lovemaking takes on a rather different level of importance. It is now no longer the be-all and end-all of the intimacies you share. This means that you will cope better with the ups and downs of your sexual appetites and, mutually attuned, detect sexual interest early and know how to act on it. Then, when you do have intercourse it is much more meaningful because it takes place against a background of loving interest in one another.
Not only are inequalities and variations in sexual appetite better coped with, but the occasional failure, rather than becoming a disaster, is kept in perspective because it is understood that the relationship has far more going for it than whether or not genital contact is always good.
SECRETS
Lovers of longstanding sometimes find they communicate without words; they seem to know what the other is thinking and feeling. Shared secrets help to make this a secret society. The woman may whisper to her man while they are on the dance floor, that she's wearing his favourite underwear, for example. "Accidentally" touching your lover's body in a certain place or in a particular way can have a devastating effect. Some couples can achieve the same impact with just a look.
Many couples have a private language, that they use even in front of others, as they tell one another about their feelings, arousal, or their anticipation of erotic things to come, which all add to the excitement. All of this makes such a couple much less likely to suffer from jealousies because they flirt with each other and look to one another to answer their needs. They do not then see members of the opposite sex as threatening because they know that what they have between them is vastly more valuable than anything a quickie relationship could offer.
If all of this seems nothing more than a fantasy to you, there are ways of improving things: Start of by going back to courtship behaviour; many couples have never really courted - taking every opportunity to show love in different ways. Give one another presents for no reason. They don't have to be expensive; it's the thought that matters; kiss more; telephone to say, "I love you." Leave love-notes around where they'll be found by your lover; go out with one another as if it were your first date as teenagers. Really try to please one another as if you were just starting to date. You may be surprised how much you've taken each other for granted over the years and how stale the caring and love for one another has become.
It is helpful in any loving relationship to remember to bear in mind the airline motto "we never forget you have a choice". There are many couples that let things slip, perhaps year after year, becoming more and more lazy and thoughtless only to find when they go back to courtship they've all but forgotten how to deal with one another in this way. As with so many things in life practice makes perfect and over the weeks you'll become more proficient at courting one another. With luck and effort, the combination of making courtship a priority, and your increased experiences of life, will reap you a far richer harvest than would have been possible when you were first going out at the beginning of your relationship.
SENSUAL HOLIDAYS
One of the most fruitful ways of making all this happen is to organise sensual holidays. A sensual holiday can last from an evening to a weekend. The main purpose is to get away from your normal day-to-day routine both in and out of bed and to really court one another.
You can prepare for the holiday beforehand to get best out of it. Ideas include: the uses of herbal aphrodisiacs such as ginseng, yohimbe; breakfast in bed; one sensual massage; lovemaking in an unusual place; a novel type or position of lovemaking you know your lover would like; or an evening devoted to your lover's every whim. Each couple will have their own ideas as to what suits them, or they've always wanted to do.
Send your tokens some days before the holiday so your lover has time to prepare (if necessary). This also helps build up excited anticipation for the holiday. Remember, none of this need be expensive - the whole thing can take place at home with perhaps a special dinner or outing just for the two of you. Whatever you do and wherever you do it, the main thing is to give yourselves over to one another totally and to aim to do things that please and delight. Talk about it afterwards to see what worked well and what didn't. It's best to take it in turns to arrange such holidays so each lover has the opportunity to call the shots and decide what they want.
MASSAGE
Sensual massage is a wonderful way of lovemaking without intercourse. This form of loving contact is often underestimated. There are few things a couple can experience together that allow them to be more in touch with themselves, and to communicate at every level than a loving, sensual massage. Whether or not this becomes an erotic massage is up to you, but even if one does lead to the other you still don't have to end up having intercourse - you could stimulate each other or simply cuddle and kiss.
FULL BODY ALERT
Sight, sound, smell and taste are powerful aphrodisiacs - exploit them to the full. Right from babyhood most of us use fewer of our senses than we might. In learning to please one another without intercourse it can be helpful to look at how each sense could be better used to serve lovemaking. Here are some ideas:
THE POWER OF AROMA
Use perfume, perfumed soaps, scented oils for massage, burning joss sticks, flowers, room perfumes, and anything else (not all at once!) that helps enhance your sense of smell. Remember, if you perfume yourself too heavily you'll mask the natural odours that are such a turn-on for your lover. Make sure you are clean and washed but not so squeaky clean your natural smells are obliterated. Learn, perhaps for the first time, how each part of your lover's body smells.
SOUND EFFECTS
The lover's sound can be delicious as you make love. The little groans, sighs and moans that say "I love you" are all valuable cues to how things are going. With the lights off, learn to recognise how your lover's sexual arousal cycle is progressing just by sound alone. Take a delight in the sounds of your bodies reacting with each other. Use beautiful music to accompany lovemaking.
ACQUIRING THE TASTE
Get to know how your lover tastes by licking all over. Taste mouths, faces, sweat, genital secretions and so on. This is intimately tied up with the smelling exercise since taste and smell are so closely interlinked. Experiment with all kinds of tactile sensations using not only your bodies, but also foods, clothing, vibrators and so on.
Sex In The City
It is a common belief that women use sex to gain love. She knows you are on the fence about having a relationship with her, but if she puts out, she knows she will get you. This was true in the past and somewhat true today. Women who live in big cities tend to be looking less for romance and more for sex. As compared to a woman in a small city who is more likely looking for love. I'm not sure why it is so different with women who live in different atmospheres. I suspect that some of it has to do with the lifestyle of the ladies in question. I think that a woman who lives in a big city is more likely to be career oriented and less time to fuck.
A woman in a small town, is looking for long term romance because she has more free time on her hands. I also think that the woman in the smaller city doesn't want to be known as a slut. If you live in a bigger city, chances are you won't know half of the town.
When women go out to bars and end up engaging in a one night stand, it isn't just because it happened. Us men like to think that we put the moves on a woman and we won her over. That we hunted the prey and we bagged it without a ounce of defeat. This isn't really true. Chances are if you get a one night stand, she left the house looking to have sex. Before she got in the door at the bar she knew she wanted to have sex with someone. Women are becoming more like men. They are becoming the hunter and not the hunted. Times have changed my friend, there isn't a whole lot we can do about that. All we can do is work with what we got.
Here is some tips for keeping that one night stand so you can have sex again and again. Some men like the idea of having sex with a woman and not having an emotional bond with her. Most men call these escorts or whores, but if you play your cards right you won't have to pay for sex.
Some good tips:
Be a gentleman. After you both have your orgasms tell her how nice the experience was. Walk her to your door and make sure to smile a lot. If you are at her place, make sure to tell her that you had a great time before you leave.
Don't make the first move. If she is naked on the bed, there is no reason to go ape shit on her. Take your time, let her dictate how the night will go. Listen to her every whimper and moan to see what she likes. Work extra hard to please her. Think of this as an audition, if you perform well, you will get to come back.
Blow her mind. You should try to make the sex as good as possible. Don't forget that women are mental creatures, make love to her mind and body. Makes sure that there is no stone unturned when it comes to pleasing her. If you succeed, you might get seconds.
Exchange numbers. After you are done having sex, exchange phone numbers. Don't call her though, let her call you. If she doesn't call you, oh well, at least you got a good lay out of it. Chances are, if you done a good job, she will call you back.
Keep it light and smooth. Make sure that your sex is nothing more than a hobby with her. If you do fall in love with her, don't let her know. This might cause her to push herself away from you because she isn't looking for a relationship. Be glad you are getting some action.
The downfall in this kind of sex is that one person would get emotionally attached. The problem is, when only one person does this. If it is a one sided thing, then chances are someone is going to get hurt. If you are able to go into this with an open mind then I would suggest that you do so. If you can't, I don't think I would per sue it more than a one night stand. All you are going to do is hurt yourself.
I have known many women who try to do one night stands and end up getting themselves hurt. What they end up trying to do is win over a hot stud that they think they couldn't have gotten unless they put out. Once they put out, they realize that they made a mistake and their feelings are hurt. In the worst case, you could have a nut on your hands. She might make your life a living hell if you don't fall in love with her. We have all known women like this. They will do anything and everything in hopes that you fall in love with them. I have known women who get pregnant on purpose to try to get the man to love them. They don't realize that all they love is what is between their legs, not what is between their ears.
These types of sexual flings can be good. I hate to beat the old drum, but I don't think I can talk enough about this. If you are going to engage in this sort of sexual behavior you always need to make sure you use a condom. Don't fall for when she says she is on the pill or she can't have babies. Just because she is on the pill, doesn't mean that she won't spread diseases. The pill doesn't keep her from getting diseases and it won't you either.
As always, try to have fun. You need to get out and enjoy life when ever you can. Sex can be great if the people are open enough to enjoy it. Protect yourself, protect her, and know what is at stake before you pound her. That will keep you safe.
A woman in a small town, is looking for long term romance because she has more free time on her hands. I also think that the woman in the smaller city doesn't want to be known as a slut. If you live in a bigger city, chances are you won't know half of the town.
When women go out to bars and end up engaging in a one night stand, it isn't just because it happened. Us men like to think that we put the moves on a woman and we won her over. That we hunted the prey and we bagged it without a ounce of defeat. This isn't really true. Chances are if you get a one night stand, she left the house looking to have sex. Before she got in the door at the bar she knew she wanted to have sex with someone. Women are becoming more like men. They are becoming the hunter and not the hunted. Times have changed my friend, there isn't a whole lot we can do about that. All we can do is work with what we got.
Here is some tips for keeping that one night stand so you can have sex again and again. Some men like the idea of having sex with a woman and not having an emotional bond with her. Most men call these escorts or whores, but if you play your cards right you won't have to pay for sex.
Some good tips:
Be a gentleman. After you both have your orgasms tell her how nice the experience was. Walk her to your door and make sure to smile a lot. If you are at her place, make sure to tell her that you had a great time before you leave.
Don't make the first move. If she is naked on the bed, there is no reason to go ape shit on her. Take your time, let her dictate how the night will go. Listen to her every whimper and moan to see what she likes. Work extra hard to please her. Think of this as an audition, if you perform well, you will get to come back.
Blow her mind. You should try to make the sex as good as possible. Don't forget that women are mental creatures, make love to her mind and body. Makes sure that there is no stone unturned when it comes to pleasing her. If you succeed, you might get seconds.
Exchange numbers. After you are done having sex, exchange phone numbers. Don't call her though, let her call you. If she doesn't call you, oh well, at least you got a good lay out of it. Chances are, if you done a good job, she will call you back.
Keep it light and smooth. Make sure that your sex is nothing more than a hobby with her. If you do fall in love with her, don't let her know. This might cause her to push herself away from you because she isn't looking for a relationship. Be glad you are getting some action.
The downfall in this kind of sex is that one person would get emotionally attached. The problem is, when only one person does this. If it is a one sided thing, then chances are someone is going to get hurt. If you are able to go into this with an open mind then I would suggest that you do so. If you can't, I don't think I would per sue it more than a one night stand. All you are going to do is hurt yourself.
I have known many women who try to do one night stands and end up getting themselves hurt. What they end up trying to do is win over a hot stud that they think they couldn't have gotten unless they put out. Once they put out, they realize that they made a mistake and their feelings are hurt. In the worst case, you could have a nut on your hands. She might make your life a living hell if you don't fall in love with her. We have all known women like this. They will do anything and everything in hopes that you fall in love with them. I have known women who get pregnant on purpose to try to get the man to love them. They don't realize that all they love is what is between their legs, not what is between their ears.
These types of sexual flings can be good. I hate to beat the old drum, but I don't think I can talk enough about this. If you are going to engage in this sort of sexual behavior you always need to make sure you use a condom. Don't fall for when she says she is on the pill or she can't have babies. Just because she is on the pill, doesn't mean that she won't spread diseases. The pill doesn't keep her from getting diseases and it won't you either.
As always, try to have fun. You need to get out and enjoy life when ever you can. Sex can be great if the people are open enough to enjoy it. Protect yourself, protect her, and know what is at stake before you pound her. That will keep you safe.
Oral Sex Orgasms
With more than half the year gone I’d like to know how many of us have achieved an absolutely mind blowing orgasm or helped their partner achieve one. Did you know that more than 30% of women in the world cannot experience and orgasm? It made me wonder what an orgasm like this would be like until I experienced one myself and it wasn’t until 7 years ago that I first realized what I had been missing out on for all these years. For many women the best way of achieving a wild orgasm where your body seems to explode all the way from your toes to your clit and the most consistent way is through oral sex.
I am going on what I have learnt over 4 years as a working girl seeing men and women on a daily basis and am prepared to share a technique that a lot of men have tried on their partners… If a partner knows how to give outstanding oral sex then a woman will reach an orgasm majority of the time…
My partner certainly knows how to play with my little button and he sure knows how to make my bells ring… so guys help your partners experience this wonderful sensation that I enjoy so much…
Hmmm I can see some of you looking at your partners and asking that question, “How can I give you what she’s having?”
It reminds me of the shampoo commercial with Meg Ryan in it, “Oh yesss!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!!” “I’ll have what she’s having”…
Ok guys lets get down to some real fun with your partner.
There are many different ways to give oral to your partner and all I can say is, the best way is the way you and your partner feel most comfortable with.
Both you and your partner should be in a comfortable and relaxed position and ladies YOU NEED to tell your partner what you want him to do!!!! Enjoying and pleasing is a team effort so to speak, enjoy sex at it’s best for both of you, not just one of you.
Foreplay can be fun if you let your bodies relax and enjoy the sensual touching that can be experienced either in or out of bed. Sexual encounters do not have to take place in bed or they can take place anywhere that you feel comfortable.
I like lying near a roaring fire on a sheepskin wool rug in winter, watching a XXX video and sipping on a glass of wine. In the kitchen is good too, but just remember to have a wide enough bench top and remove sharp knives in case of a slip-up of some sort…. Showering with a friend can also be exciting, but sometimes, oral services can get water logged.
Ok, back to guys giving oral to their partner…
Here is an excerpt from a story I once wrote:
”I want you to suck my clit and lick my pussy… that’s right, I want you to kneel between my legs and use your tongue, tickle my clit, lick my pussy juice. I want you to fuck my cunt with your tongue.
My legs are open for you cause I am as horny as hell and my juices want to flow as you bring me to a mind-blowing orgasm.
Oh yes, that is so nice, tease my pussy, flick my clit softly, don’t point your tongue, use the flat part of your tongue to lick me. My pussy loves to be licked, I want to feel you caress my pussy with your hot tongue, make it tingle all over…
With your head between my thighs, my pussy is hot as you lick, tasting my juices one more time. Sliding one finger into my twat, you tickle my g-spot, playing with a sensitive area that makes me have wild orgasms. I love it Steve and I don’t want you to stop… push two fingers into my hole now and fuck me hard with them as you lick my clit… Oh Steve, I’m Cumming now!!! Fuck me harder!! That’s it, harder, suck on my clit … oh yes ahhhhhh”
Hmmm, I love reading this part of the story…
However, there are parts of this story that you should pay attention to.
1. Use the flat of your tongue - really going to town and sucking on a girl’s clit may sound exciting to some men, but I have found that it can also turn a girl off with the continual sucking.
Ok to help you guys along a bit about how this may feel to a lady… Think about how the head of your cock feels just after you have ejaculated… sensitive right? Yep, well going on my experience that is what it feels like to have your clit sucked over and over. On that note some ladies may enjoy it, so really it is individually based on what your partner’s sense of arousal and the sensations that this may cause. Hope this makes sense…
2. Listen to her - if she tells you to fuck her pussy with your tongue, then do it, follow her lead but at the same time experiment, use your fingers to please and tease at the same time, if she likes toys, use them gently unless she tells you to fuck her harder and harder with them…
3. Ladies, tell your man what you want, don’t be afraid to open up and tell him your needs.
Above all else, relax and enjoy your sexual experiences together. If you can’t relax your mind-blowing orgasm may not happen… so please ladies take my advice, relax and you will enjoy… focus on a point that is most sensitive and let it happen for you….
On that note, I hope you all give it a go and enjoy the oral experience that we all desire. Mind-blowing orgasms are wild and fantastic; foreplay with out intercourse can be a wonderful way to play.
Please remember that I am not a Sex Therapist, but I am a sex worker who learns so much from her clients, male and female and of course the couples I see.
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Love Machine
Let's say you're a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you're a 'rare to find'. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you're the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you're amazing in bed.
Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.
And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.
Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.
Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. If you are keen to get sex right then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com and surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest love machine.
Did I say AMAZING IN BED???
Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.
And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.
Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.
Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. If you are keen to get sex right then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com and surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest love machine.
Bedroom Issues: Am I terrible in bed?
Frankly, if you need to ask this question then you already have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.
And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.
There are many things that could go wrong, which are not necessarily under your control. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt.
Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small since going out with the guys is fun and hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy. And if you really have a problem, don’t despair. Every problem has a solution.
If you are keen to get sex right every time, then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com.
And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.
There are many things that could go wrong, which are not necessarily under your control. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt.
Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small since going out with the guys is fun and hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy. And if you really have a problem, don’t despair. Every problem has a solution.
If you are keen to get sex right every time, then you need Lovecentria™. Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com.
Something New for the Couples
There are lots of factors that gets in the way of most couples to make sex less exciting as time goes by. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine sometimes becomes so tiring. The fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run, it is a good idea that couples should try some new variations --- especially in getting terms with intimacy.
Variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. It allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting uninteresting but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom.
With comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and a whole section dedicated to sex positions, Lovecentria™ has all the answer for your concern. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people especially if you get to see the fun side of trying and failing to get it right the first time.
Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You're just beginning to learn new positions so there's no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.
The Lovecentria™ team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life.
New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria™ website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest. With 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control, you can surely become a bona fide sex god. For more info, just visit Lovecentria by clicking here.
Variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. It allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting uninteresting but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom.
With comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and a whole section dedicated to sex positions, Lovecentria™ has all the answer for your concern. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people especially if you get to see the fun side of trying and failing to get it right the first time.
Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You're just beginning to learn new positions so there's no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.
The Lovecentria™ team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life.
New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria™ website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest. With 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control, you can surely become a bona fide sex god. For more info, just visit Lovecentria by clicking here.
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