A Great Lover?

Most men aren't really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one. So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a guy after the first time they make love? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women? First off, women like to be listened to. They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed can lead touch better sex. Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him.

What's more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly LIKE women. That makes a big difference. The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn't see them as friends. A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

Also a man who touches women gently and doesn't rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good. So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don't feel that way. It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all. It certainly isn't the way to excite and stimulate most women.

And of course, a great lover knows about the female body. He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind. He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes - or doesn't make. He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs. If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately.

A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn't just stick in his penis and hammer at her. He doesn't stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most men do.

What really keeps most men from being great lovers - lovers that women remember with a smile for years - is that they have a goal - and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal. They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Next time you are on a date with a woman, try listening to her - really listening. Talk with her, get to really know her. Enjoy her company, don't focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later or anything other than the time you are spending with her at that very moment. If you treat every minute you spend with her in this way, and you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you - and that is the most important first step toward being a great lover.

Sex In The City

It is a common belief that women use sex to gain love. She knows you are on the fence about having a relationship with her, but if she puts out, she knows she will get you. This was true in the past and somewhat true today. Women who live in big cities tend to be looking less for romance and more for sex. As compared to a woman in a small city who is more likely looking for love. I'm not sure why it is so different with women who live in different atmospheres. I suspect that some of it has to do with the lifestyle of the ladies in question. I think that a woman who lives in a big city is more likely to be career oriented and less time to fuck.
A woman in a small town, is looking for long term romance because she has more free time on her hands. I also think that the woman in the smaller city doesn't want to be known as a slut. If you live in a bigger city, chances are you won't know half of the town.

When women go out to bars and end up engaging in a one night stand, it isn't just because it happened. Us men like to think that we put the moves on a woman and we won her over. That we hunted the prey and we bagged it without a ounce of defeat. This isn't really true. Chances are if you get a one night stand, she left the house looking to have sex. Before she got in the door at the bar she knew she wanted to have sex with someone. Women are becoming more like men. They are becoming the hunter and not the hunted. Times have changed my friend, there isn't a whole lot we can do about that. All we can do is work with what we got.

Here is some tips for keeping that one night stand so you can have sex again and again. Some men like the idea of having sex with a woman and not having an emotional bond with her. Most men call these escorts or whores, but if you play your cards right you won't have to pay for sex.

Some good tips:

Be a gentleman. After you both have your orgasms tell her how nice the experience was. Walk her to your door and make sure to smile a lot. If you are at her place, make sure to tell her that you had a great time before you leave.

Don't make the first move. If she is naked on the bed, there is no reason to go ape shit on her. Take your time, let her dictate how the night will go. Listen to her every whimper and moan to see what she likes. Work extra hard to please her. Think of this as an audition, if you perform well, you will get to come back.

Blow her mind. You should try to make the sex as good as possible. Don't forget that women are mental creatures, make love to her mind and body. Makes sure that there is no stone unturned when it comes to pleasing her. If you succeed, you might get seconds.

Exchange numbers. After you are done having sex, exchange phone numbers. Don't call her though, let her call you. If she doesn't call you, oh well, at least you got a good lay out of it. Chances are, if you done a good job, she will call you back.

Keep it light and smooth. Make sure that your sex is nothing more than a hobby with her. If you do fall in love with her, don't let her know. This might cause her to push herself away from you because she isn't looking for a relationship. Be glad you are getting some action.

The downfall in this kind of sex is that one person would get emotionally attached. The problem is, when only one person does this. If it is a one sided thing, then chances are someone is going to get hurt. If you are able to go into this with an open mind then I would suggest that you do so. If you can't, I don't think I would per sue it more than a one night stand. All you are going to do is hurt yourself.

I have known many women who try to do one night stands and end up getting themselves hurt. What they end up trying to do is win over a hot stud that they think they couldn't have gotten unless they put out. Once they put out, they realize that they made a mistake and their feelings are hurt. In the worst case, you could have a nut on your hands. She might make your life a living hell if you don't fall in love with her. We have all known women like this. They will do anything and everything in hopes that you fall in love with them. I have known women who get pregnant on purpose to try to get the man to love them. They don't realize that all they love is what is between their legs, not what is between their ears.

These types of sexual flings can be good. I hate to beat the old drum, but I don't think I can talk enough about this. If you are going to engage in this sort of sexual behavior you always need to make sure you use a condom. Don't fall for when she says she is on the pill or she can't have babies. Just because she is on the pill, doesn't mean that she won't spread diseases. The pill doesn't keep her from getting diseases and it won't you either.

As always, try to have fun. You need to get out and enjoy life when ever you can. Sex can be great if the people are open enough to enjoy it. Protect yourself, protect her, and know what is at stake before you pound her. That will keep you safe.

Paying For Sex?

Week after week you see the money in your bank account going down and down. You are spending a lot of money on your date, you are having a good time, you are getting some action. Everything seem great doesn't it? It all seems great until you realize that you will have to get a second job just to afford the dates. You are enjoying yourself and you don't want the dates to end. What do you do? Is she a whore or a nice girl? That sounds blunt, but it is something you need to ask yourself. While she might not be a whore on the corner, you very well might be paying money for sex. Men do this all the time and don't realize it. Pay attention to the times you get laid. Do you mostly get laid after you spend a lot of money on her? If the answer is yes, then chances are you are paying for sex and not knowing it.

Ask her about her ex's. What kind of jobs they had. If her last few ex's had high paying jobs, chances are she is a gold digger. She doesn't want you, she doesn't like your company, all she likes is your wallet.

I often find that older men get trapped into this. They are searching for a young lady to make them forget they are old. Chances are that at their age, they have built up a nice savings and have a good job. This is pay dirt for the gold digger.

If a woman senses that you are very lonely, she might also try to gold dig. They know that you will do almost anything to be with her. Really, you are paying for the sex. That is all that you doing. That, and you are paying for someone to lie to you.

This might sound like an odd suggestion, but hear me out. If you read closely, it will all make sense.

Have you ever thought about visiting an escort. Now, pick up your jaw and give me a few seconds to explain myself. I know that going to these 'working girls' is against everything that your mother taught you.

You are paying for the sex any ways. What is the difference really? Do you think that because one calls themselves a whore and another one is lying to you, makes that much of a difference?

I know what you are thinking. 'There are too many STDs out there'. You are right there is. There is also a risk of getting something even if you use a condom. This is also true for having sex with your gold digging friend. There is no way around it.

There are many types of sex that you can do with an escort that is almost risk free. Here are some suggests for types of sex acts that you can do.

Oral sex. We all love oral sex. If you wear a condom, this is almost risk free. Have her suck it twice, you will be glad you did!

Masturbation. It is almost impossible for you to get an STD with the escort masturbating you. Enjoy it. There are some great ways that she can spice this up so it feels good as gold. She can cuddle your testicles with one hand while she jerks away with the other hand. Just think of the stuff you like to do, when she does it, it will feel much better.

In the long run you will be saving money if you go to an escort. Often times the very good looking ones cost at least 100 an hour. If you think about it, even getting laid two times a week, you are still saving money.

The escort won't ask you to pay her 400 dollar phone bill. She won't ask you for money to fix her car. It is purely sex for money. That is it. You don't have to call her in the morning to tell her how special it was for you!

All in all, be thrifty with your money. If you are paying for sex, get the most bang for your buck.

Paranoid (Cheating)

Have you ever cheated on your woman? Many men have, but few will admit to it. Sometimes I think this is the worst thing a person can do to another. I'm sure that you could argue that killing someone is worse, but when you cheat, you are killing them emotionally. A person who has went through such an experience, never comes back the same. I really do think that being cheated on, changes a person. Women view cheating on many levels. Some are quick to jump the gun while other women are more thoughtful when it comes to it. In this article, we will discuss what a woman views as cheating.

Most women view having sex with another woman as cheating. This should be common sense. Though, I have heard many times where a man will claim that he didn't know it was cheating. He will make up some lame ass excuse about how he thought the relationship was on the rocks.

Having sex with someone and cheating on your woman is plain wrong. Think of it from this perspective. If you catch a disease and come home and sleep with her, then you will give it to her. Your 'fun' with your mistress might be great, but your woman has nothing to do with it. By risking her health, you are doing something worse than cheating, you could end up killing her.

If you aren't getting any sex in a relationship or it has turned south, you need to get out of it. You have no right to expose someone else to diseases. It is your responsibility to do something about it. You are an adult now, you need to do things on your own.

Some women view kissing as cheating as well. In my mind, it is cheating. I'm not sure how someone can justify getting aroused enough by someone to kiss them and not think they are cheating.

If aunt Betsy comes over from Alaska and she kisses you on the cheek because she hasn't seen you for a long time, that isn't cheating. Of course if it is a relative or close friend, then its not cheating. If it is out of lust it is. Chances are, kissing will only lead to other things.

If you are kissing another woman, it brings up a lot of questions. It would sound to me that you aren't in the stage that you are having sex with this woman, but it is coming soon. Most men aren't able to kiss a woman without having sexual thoughts.

The same questions apply in my mind as if you were having sex with someone else. There must be some aspect of the current relationship you are in that is lacking or you wouldn't be doing such things. It is better to fix these problems than it is to run away from them. All you will be doing is ensuring that nothing positive happens.

I know that it might be hard to believe, but some women believe that if you are just friends with a woman, then you must be cheating. To some women this is cheating, thought I think this is going a little too far.

Women feel that if you are confiding in another woman, then that is cheating. If you are telling her things that you would have told your girlfriend, you are cheating. They think that you should pour your heart and soul into them instead of this other woman. They might be right to a certain degree, but this isn't cheating. You should be able to go to your girlfriend and talk to them about anything and everything, but there are things you can't talk about to her. Try talking to her about how bitchy she is during her period, you will soon find out that you can't talk about anything and everything.

Some women will always think their men are cheating. Regardless how you try to prove yourself, they will always be lurking around the corner trying to catch you in the act. I have known several women like this. I have even known one man like this. I worked with his wife in a small office. She told him that we were talking every day at lunch and he flipped out. He accused us of having sex together. That is a bit extreme, but people do react this way.

I would suggest that if your woman constantly thinks you are cheating, you need to talk to her about it. Some people do act in suspicious manners, while some women have this fixation that all men are scum of the earth. You need to decide which camp she is in.

Some women constantly nag and bitch that you are cheating on them when you aren't. I think sometimes this is because they were cheated on in the past and are afraid that it will happen to them again. Other times, I think they are paranoid and have emotional problems.

Needless to say, regardless of why she thinks this, there is a problem. If in fact you are cheating on her, you already know what the problem is. But, if she is fixed on the idea that you are cheating and it is ruining your life, you need to get out. This is one of the worst forms of harassment there is. There is no need for you to have to put up with this sort of thing. This is the type of thing in a relationship that will drive a man to kill himself or to drink.

If you are cheating, cut off your penis. You are a worthless bastard who only thinks of yourself. If you aren't cheating and she always complains that you are, find out why she feels this way. If she is just paranoid, dump her. Life is too short for her games.

Something New for the Couples from Lovecentria™

There are lots of factors that gets in the way of most couples to make sex less exciting as time goes by. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine sometimes becomes so tiring. The fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run, it is a good idea that couples should try some new variations --- especially in getting terms with intimacy.

Variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. It allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting uninteresting but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom.

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Lovecentria™ and Kama Sutra

Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take Kama Sutra for example. Everybody’s heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra it’s just that: a name. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Nevertheless, it’s easier to pretend that one has the common vague idea about what’s in it than to really get hold of a copy and read it.

But, since we believe that it’s better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself, Lovecentria™ has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people. Lovecentria™ features an everyman’s guide to both Kama Sutra and Tantric sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.

We have a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and ebooks that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kama (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria™ website.

The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. With more information comes more confidence and before you know it a new man will emerge from within you, a man who knows what to say and what to do to succeed every time. I think every man would like that.

Tantric sex is another great way of blowing the minds (not literally) of women; especially those who don’t think much of you at the start. Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It’s about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that’s exactly what’s going to make her beg for more every time. Because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.

If you are interested in experimenting with Kama Sutra and tantric sex then Lovecentria has all the content and advice that you need. Articles, videos and instructional eBooks are all available.